I said, “Challenge yourself to ask her out again.” A week later, he asked “Rachael, now we have had 2 dinner dates, I really like her. Any suggestions?” I said, “Send flowers”.

Then he asked, “What do you think about LEGO Flowers?” I said I would send them if it was to my nephew.

When you pick flowers:
1: The most important thing is to send them to the office during office hours. So that her colleagues can have an envious look at her.

2: Send them on a Monday, so that she can enjoy them for the whole week.

3: Do not use the trick of not putting your name on the card. Because it will be embarrassing if she guesses the wrong person. This is before you confirm the relationship. I remember one male client asked a female client if she can be his girlfriend, the next day when she received flowers, she thought they were from him. But actually, they were from another client who was also chasing her.

4: She might not have a vase at the office. 99.99% of guys will send just flowers. If you send them with a vase, you stand out.

5: There is a powder which can make the flowers last longer, ask the shop.

6: Always go for classy RED ROSES.

7: Never send white flowers, they are for funerals.

8: Agnes b eleven pieces of dark red rose is the best option.

9: Don’t send flowers which are in a box, no one will see them if she carries them on the street or to a restaurant.

10: 99 red roses are romantic. However, if she is the type of girl that like to wear shoes like Jimmy Choo, she might have to throw the flowers away to walk. It happened to my clients before.

11: There is a new design of a red rose with a real diamond on the rose. You can do it on special occasions but not on Valentine’s Day. Because no one will see the diamond. Everyone else will only see she got ONE bloom of the tiny flower while other girls have a big bunch of flowers.

*12: Send different flowers or roses, but in different colours so that if she wants to post on social media, it won’t look like she is re-posting the same flowers. First-time flowers should generally be red roses.

13: If you have no idea what flowers to send, you can ask the shop for a recommendation. What are the most popular flowers? Or pay attention to social media to see what other girls have posted lately.

14: Do not send flowers in boxes, especially on occasions like Valentine’s Day. Imagine a classy lady wearing high heels, in a nice dress and carrying a big box, walking on the street. Not a good look.

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If you ask her what she likes, she will politely say, “Anything is fine.” Instead, ask if she has any food allergies or preferences and make your restaurant selection based on that. Read some restaurant reviews. If the place is nice, and it should be nice for a first or second date, MAKE A RESERVATION. It shows that you respect the occasion and consider it important enough to ensure that it goes well.

For the ladies: Unfortunately, not every guy will understand the importance of good preparedness. If the guy is busy, or is nervous about choosing the wrong restaurant, you can take a positive step by offering to make the reservation. Pick a restaurant that you have been wanting to try with someone. It doesn’t necessarily mean they’re not sincere if they don’t make a reservation; it could just be that they’ve been single for a long time, and are not confident enough to make such decisions yet.

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