Vivian, 32, private banker, ESTP Calvin, 41, director of a global recruitment company, ESFJ Among the clients who join our billiard gatherings, Calvin is the best player. Vivian told me she wanted to learn playing pool. From my experience, Vivian is not very good at expressing appreciation and emotions. She can come across as …
Year: 2018
It’s never too late to find love
Catherine, 52, very fit, ESTJ Jonathan, 65, hitting the gym 5-6 times a week, ENFJ Age is no hurdle to finding love again. My chance encounter with Jonathan, 65, my former client a decade ago, at the gym has opened the door on dating for him when he has all but given up on …
Greeting cultural differences on a first date
Here are my thoughts on the key greeting differences: 1. If you are a Westerner, meeting Asian girls … instead of giving a kiss on the cheek, test the waters out to see what makes the lady comfortable. 2. Shaking hands only happen when you are meeting someone for business – DON”T DO THAT ON …
Keep studying and practicing to The PHD Rule
Last night when I was watching a movie with my loved one, a movie called Dr. Strange, someone asked the doctor: What makes you become a PHD? He said “Study and practice!” This applies to all professional jobs, dating, and relationships. Someone also said: I found the harder I work, the luckier I get. Therefore …
Meaning of a ring
There are four types of ring: the Promise Ring, the Engagement Ring, the Marriage Ring and the Infinity (Eternity) Ring. A promise ring, also names the pre-engagement ring, is a symbol of commitment and monogamy. It’s not necessary a diamond. An engagement ring, since De Beer advertised that a “Diamond is forever”, should cost men …
Seeking Mr. Not Very Wrong
I think compatibility is an achievement of love, rather than a pre-condition. The partner who suits us best is not the one who shares all our tastes and values, but the one who can disagree with us agreeably. We should look for someone who has the capacity to tolerate differences with generosity. Rather than seek …
Matches Made in MBTI Heaven
If you are one of our clients, you probably already know a bit about the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), and the important role that it plays in making ideal matches. We have found that introverts are best matched with extroverts, because in general extroverts have no problem taking the initiative. Extroverts are best when they …
Secret for flat abs.
When you do crunches, you are building muscles below the abs, which makes your midsection look bigger. The trick is to breathe out when bending down, and then squeeze belly in and hold for 2 seconds, slowly return and repeat 3 sets of 12.
When Frank met Rosanna at the pool table
Frank, 45, is an executive at an international travel company. Rosanna, 38, works for an event company. They both enjoy playing pool, so they decided to meet for drinks at one of the premium pool bars in Central. When they started playing, he told her that he had seen her there before. He had dropped …
The smart way to fall in love
Newton was a smart man. His Second Law of Motion not only explains the relationship between force and acceleration in motion, it also gives us a hint as to how we can fall in love. Based on Newton’s Second Law of motion, absent of any air resistance, an elephant and a feather falling from a …