Author: raingo

Happiness for the fittest: Tiffany, 1984, flight attendant, ESFP Edmund, 1976, lawyer, ISFJ After analyzing the personality profiles of Tiffany and Edmund, I paired them up as I know ESFP and ISFJ types are a perfect match. Tiffany, being ESFP, is spontaneous and enthusiastic. While this type of person is weak in planning, they are …

Vivian, 32, private banker, ESTP Calvin, 41, director of a global recruitment company, ESFJ   Among the clients who join our billiard gatherings, Calvin is the best player. Vivian told me she wanted to learn playing pool. From my experience, Vivian is not very good at expressing appreciation and emotions. She can come across as …

Catherine, 52, very fit, ESTJ Jonathan, 65, hitting the gym 5-6 times a week, ENFJ   Age is no hurdle to finding love again. My chance encounter with Jonathan, 65, my former client a decade ago, at the gym has opened the door on dating for him when he has all but given up on …

I think compatibility is an achievement of love, rather than a pre-condition. The partner who suits us best is not the one who shares all our tastes and values, but the one who can disagree with us agreeably. We should look for someone who has the capacity to tolerate differences with generosity. Rather than seek …

If you are one of our clients, you probably already know a bit about the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), and the important role that it plays in making ideal matches. We have found that introverts are best matched with extroverts, because in general extroverts have no problem taking the initiative. Extroverts are best when they …

When you do crunches, you are building muscles below the abs, which makes your midsection look bigger. The trick is to breathe out when bending down, and then squeeze belly in and hold for 2 seconds, slowly return and repeat 3 sets of 12.

Frank, 45, is an executive at an international travel company. Rosanna, 38, works for an event company. They both enjoy playing pool, so they decided to meet for drinks at one of the premium pool bars in Central. When they started playing, he told her that he had seen her there before. He had dropped …

Newton was a smart man. His Second Law of Motion not only explains the relationship between force and acceleration in motion, it also gives us a hint as to how we can fall in love. Based on Newton’s Second Law of motion, absent of any air resistance, an elephant and a feather falling from a …

“Jane” visited us for a free consultation a long time ago, but she wasn’t quite prepared at the time. I advised her to pursue a healthier life style and lose a few pounds in the process. Six months later, she came back to us 15 pounds lighter and signed on for a package to meet …

I’ve always advised my clients that it’s better to be happily single than to be mired in a bad relationship. There are many marvelous benefits to being single, and you should take full advantage of these opportunities, which includes dating, picking up new hobbies, and exploring your passions—all of which prepare you for the day …