Male Dating

Why we are different

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Happy New Year! Rachael and Smith is going to be 15 years old. About our client base: When ladies come for a consultation, they often ask, why if these guys have such good profiles, do they need your service? I say because they knew me, they joined one of my events 10 or even 15 …

Greeting cultural differences on a first date

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Here are my thoughts on the key greeting differences: 1. If you are a Westerner, meeting Asian girls … instead of giving a kiss on the cheek, test the waters out to see what makes the lady comfortable. 2. Shaking hands only happen when you are meeting someone for business – DON”T DO THAT ON …

Keep studying and practicing to The PHD Rule

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Last night when I was watching a movie with my loved one, a movie called Dr. Strange, someone asked the doctor: What makes you become a PHD? He said “Study and practice!” This applies to all professional jobs, dating, and relationships. Someone also said: I found the harder I work, the luckier I get. Therefore …

Pre-Dinner Date Etiquette

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For the gentleman: The dinner date does not begin when you arrive at the restaurant. It began when you invited her out. And you should try to make the date at least 3-5 days in advance.   If you ask her what she likes, she will politely say, “Anything is fine.” Instead, ask if she …

Show confidence in yourself and in your partner

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*One evening, Rene and Gilbert decided to have a drink and play a couple of games of pool. Rene was running late, and when she arrived, she found Gilbert playing with Bo (who looked like she already had a few drinks), Marcus, and Michelle. It so happens that they all work for the same financial …

Why do men like to help?

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*In terms of evolutionary psychology, men have always been protectors. When a man sees a woman who needs help, he instinctively feels the urge to offer a hand, whether it is changing light bulbs, moving heavy furniture, or killing cockroaches. And when the woman shows appreciation, the man feels good because he was able to …

Dating is like photography

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I recently met with a potential new client who is an auditor. We started by having a casual chat. I asked about her hobbies. She said she likes film photography. She likes the idea that we have to take 100-200 shots to arrive at one good image. It is a process of discovery, often in …