Category: Relationship For Men

A good friend of mine recently got married. Although she moved in with him after the first month of their relationship, they both agreed that rushing into a marriage was not a good idea, so they lived together and got to know each other well for five years before tying the knot. During this time, …

Other than the usual off-the-shelf gifts, doing something creative for your partner such as making a one-of-a-kind painting or cooking an elegant meal always garners extra appreciation. If you can manage your holiday schedules, an experiential holiday to create special memories would be the perfect getaway. Some reminders for gentlemen: unless you plan on driving …

Nowadays, most of us are communicating through text messages rather than actual phone calls, especially when we first interact with a new friend. It is very important that we are mindful of our language and the “voice” we use. In non-business communication, you can use a more informal or relaxed tone, but you should keep …

I received a very heartwarming message from a former client yesterday. She had recently closed the deal (got married) and couldn’t be happier. She joined our service about 4 years ago, and on our advice, she started living a healthier life, getting fit (lost 8 pounds) and spent less time at work and more time …

A few very successful, previously married men in their 40’s and 50’s recently signed up for our discreet, personal services. They are seeking elegant women in their 30’s and 40’s and would prefer other divorcees like themselves. They expressed concern that it might be too late to find another partner with whom they can build …

*One evening, Rene and Gilbert decided to have a drink and play a couple of games of pool. Rene was running late, and when she arrived, she found Gilbert playing with Bo (who looked like she already had a few drinks), Marcus, and Michelle. It so happens that they all work for the same financial …

*In terms of evolutionary psychology, men have always been protectors. When a man sees a woman who needs help, he instinctively feels the urge to offer a hand, whether it is changing light bulbs, moving heavy furniture, or killing cockroaches. And when the woman shows appreciation, the man feels good because he was able to …

I recently met with a potential new client who is an auditor. We started by having a casual chat. I asked about her hobbies. She said she likes film photography. She likes the idea that we have to take 100-200 shots to arrive at one good image. It is a process of discovery, often in …

From time to time, they bring together a team with different types of personalities for brainstorming.The N-type (intuitive) always comes up many different ideas. The S-type (observant) is good at cherry picking the best plans and executing them. That’s why Disney products usually sell well. In a relationship, if you are the N-type, you always …

The 20/80 Theory If you are a senior executive, you should spend 80% of your time with the top 20% of your most valuable clients. Walk away from anyone who costs more of your time but pays less. People who truly value your profession would not mind paying more. The same theory applies to relationships. Let go …