Tips for choosing the right gift

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Other than the usual off-the-shelf gifts, doing something creative for your partner such as making a one-of-a-kind painting or cooking an elegant meal always garners extra appreciation. If you can manage your holiday schedules, an experiential holiday to create special memories would be the perfect getaway. Some reminders for gentlemen: unless you plan on driving …

Know your audience in text messages

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Nowadays, most of us are communicating through text messages rather than actual phone calls, especially when we first interact with a new friend. It is very important that we are mindful of our language and the “voice” we use. In non-business communication, you can use a more informal or relaxed tone, but you should keep …

The art of closing the deal

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I received a very heartwarming message from a former client yesterday. She had recently closed the deal (got married) and couldn’t be happier. She joined our service about 4 years ago, and on our advice, she started living a healthier life, getting fit (lost 8 pounds) and spent less time at work and more time …

Hot Wife Diet: Breakfast option

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Hot Wife Diet: Breakfast option Low sugar cereal Fresh blueberries Half a banana A cup of black coffee ☕

Preparation, persistence and positive outlook bring dating success

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A few very successful, previously married men in their 40’s and 50’s recently signed up for our discreet, personal services. They are seeking elegant women in their 30’s and 40’s and would prefer other divorcees like themselves. They expressed concern that it might be too late to find another partner with whom they can build …

Keep the sparks flying in a stable relationship

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My boyfriend is very handsome and many women approach him, but he is also worried about the many guys that approach me. He says it’s a compliment because if I were not intelligent and attractive to other men, he would not be with me. The point is: Your partner must be good enough that he/she …

Pre-Dinner Date Etiquette

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For the gentleman: The dinner date does not begin when you arrive at the restaurant. It began when you invited her out. And you should try to make the date at least 3-5 days in advance.   If you ask her what she likes, she will politely say, “Anything is fine.” Instead, ask if she …

Why do men like to help?

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*In terms of evolutionary psychology, men have always been protectors. When a man sees a woman who needs help, he instinctively feels the urge to offer a hand, whether it is changing light bulbs, moving heavy furniture, or killing cockroaches. And when the woman shows appreciation, the man feels good because he was able to …

You are not your job

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*During a follow-up, a client who is a journalist was asking very critical questions. I said I hope you’re not doing the same when you’re on a date. She said, “But I’m a journalist. I always think this way.” I said if you were interviewing Princess Diana or Mother Teresa, would you take a softer …

Dating is not that hard.

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*Peter (1977) a finance controller, met a businesswoman named Evelyn (1979). They hit it off and were on the verge of starting a relationship, but then she decided to break it off. When she called me, crying, I knew it was serious. So I talked to them separately to try and understand what the problem …