My boyfriend is very handsome and many women approach him, but he is also worried about the many guys that approach me. He says it’s a compliment because if I were not intelligent and attractive to other men, he would not be with me. The point is: Your partner must be good enough that he/she will attract other people, but at the same time, you must keep yourself competitive and prove your value in the relationship.
Holding on to your loved one is like preparing for battle: you cannot wait until something has happened. Men go off track mainly because of the excitement of being with someone new. You have to keep the relationship fresh and exciting as well. Sometimes, when everything is going well, we have a tendency to fall into a rhythm, a habit of doing the same things over and over. You have to fight against this mindset by staying fit, dressing well, and looking after yourself. If you fail at this, your man may already have half a foot out the door.
If the unthinkable does happen, stay calm. Acting crazy will only drive your man further away. Go to the gym, learn something new; he will be curious why you are keeping so busy. Bring his attention back to you, but also prepare to move on. Love should be exclusive, loyal, and committed. There are lots of great guys out there.
