Preparation, persistence and positive outlook bring dating success

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A few very successful, previously married men in their 40’s and 50’s recently signed up for our discreet, personal services. They are seeking elegant women in their 30’s and 40’s and would prefer other divorcees like themselves. They expressed concern that it might be too late to find another partner with whom they can build …

Keep the sparks flying in a stable relationship

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My boyfriend is very handsome and many women approach him, but he is also worried about the many guys that approach me. He says it’s a compliment because if I were not intelligent and attractive to other men, he would not be with me. The point is: Your partner must be good enough that he/she …

Pre-Dinner Date Etiquette

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For the gentleman: The dinner date does not begin when you arrive at the restaurant. It began when you invited her out. And you should try to make the date at least 3-5 days in advance.   If you ask her what she likes, she will politely say, “Anything is fine.” Instead, ask if she …

Mana vegetarian flat with Pumpkin Carrot and Tomato soup

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A delicious meal you can eat every day that’ll help you stay slim, improve your skin and boost your energy level.

Show confidence in yourself and in your partner

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*One evening, Rene and Gilbert decided to have a drink and play a couple of games of pool. Rene was running late, and when she arrived, she found Gilbert playing with Bo (who looked like she already had a few drinks), Marcus, and Michelle. It so happens that they all work for the same financial …

Why do men like to help?

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*In terms of evolutionary psychology, men have always been protectors. When a man sees a woman who needs help, he instinctively feels the urge to offer a hand, whether it is changing light bulbs, moving heavy furniture, or killing cockroaches. And when the woman shows appreciation, the man feels good because he was able to …

Eating Healthy

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Clients often say they want to eat healthily but it’s difficult to find healthy food in Hong Kong. Or they might say they’re not used to just having a salad as a meal. There are actually more choices than you think. With Deliveroo and Uber Eats at your fingertips, finding healthy food isn’t that hard. …

You are not your job

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*During a follow-up, a client who is a journalist was asking very critical questions. I said I hope you’re not doing the same when you’re on a date. She said, “But I’m a journalist. I always think this way.” I said if you were interviewing Princess Diana or Mother Teresa, would you take a softer …

How to play pool and learn to be a good wife

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Rachael & Smith recently created Pool Networking events to increase opportunities for interaction and socializing for clients who sign up as part of the service. In this group, potential matches meet regularly to practice. One night, I was playing with my client Evelyn when two mature western guys in their early 50s came up and …

Dating is like photography

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I recently met with a potential new client who is an auditor. We started by having a casual chat. I asked about her hobbies. She said she likes film photography. She likes the idea that we have to take 100-200 shots to arrive at one good image. It is a process of discovery, often in …