Preparation, persistence and positive outlook bring dating success

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A few very successful, previously married men in their 40’s and 50’s recently signed up for our discreet, personal services. They are seeking elegant women in their 30’s and 40’s and would prefer other divorcees like themselves. They expressed concern that it might be too late to find another partner with whom they can build …

Pre-Dinner Date Etiquette

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For the gentleman: The dinner date does not begin when you arrive at the restaurant. It began when you invited her out. And you should try to make the date at least 3-5 days in advance.   If you ask her what she likes, she will politely say, “Anything is fine.” Instead, ask if she …

Why do men like to help?

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*In terms of evolutionary psychology, men have always been protectors. When a man sees a woman who needs help, he instinctively feels the urge to offer a hand, whether it is changing light bulbs, moving heavy furniture, or killing cockroaches. And when the woman shows appreciation, the man feels good because he was able to …

Dating is not that hard.

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*Peter (1977) a finance controller, met a businesswoman named Evelyn (1979). They hit it off and were on the verge of starting a relationship, but then she decided to break it off. When she called me, crying, I knew it was serious. So I talked to them separately to try and understand what the problem …

Pool Coaching and Networking

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*One day after work, I went out to have a drink to relax and reward myself after a long week. I found this place inside the LKSF Hotel which has a pool table. I looked around and there were all these cool looking guys. My female clients say they are looking for boyfriends; maybe they …

Be open-minded

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*I was on the MTR the other day when I noticed a gentleman glancing my way a few times. He came over and introduced himself and gave me his business card. He was dressed casually. When I returned to my office, I looked at his card and saw that his office was also nearby. When …

The politics of buying (and accepting) a drink at the bar

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Gentlemen, when you meet someone at one of our networking events at a bar, introduce yourself and start the conversation with some chit-chat. Offer to buy her a drink if she doesn’t already have one, or if she already has one, you can offer to get her a new one. It is the easiest way …

Are you game?

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I recently fell in love with playing pool. It’s a very social game, and it’s fun to learn. More importantly though, learning something new, even if it’s just a hobby, keeps those brain cells active, and shows you are passionate about life. There is a great bar in LKF Hotel that has three pool tables. …

Personal journeys of fitness and health

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Ever wonder how some guys get and stay so fit? Here are a few real-life examples: 45-year-old American banker, 185cm. I was sipping my glass of wine, and he was drinking a can of coke zero. He told me that he is aiming to lose another 5kg. I looked at him and said, “I can …

Why a Man Should Not Use a Backpack with His Professional Clothing

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A mature man should no longer associate himself with his childhood past. As a schoolboy, he used a trusty backpack to carry more books than necessary. Shoulders were raw and backs were aching from over-stuffed backpacks, but that was the price we paid when we were in school. But we are no longer in school. There is …